I’m sure you’re well aware that today is what’s called the Great American Eclipse,
one of the biggest and best eclipses since the 1700s.

I had read so much about it on social media this weekend that I had a strong desire
to see it and not miss out.

And, a friend of mine invited me to go see the eclipse with her today, which sounded like a good idea at the time.

BUT, this morning I woke up with a very strong intuitive feeling of wanting to stay at home.
Plus, the idea of taking a 3 hour trip to find the best spot for a five minute viewing, was not enticing.

So, I kindly told my friend that I was going to stay in this morning and I took a nice self-care bath at 8 a.m.

Here’s where it gets crazy.

At around 10am, my nanny said “there’s a man with grey hair in your driveway, I think he’s your neighbor.”

So, I went outside and this friendly man introudced himself and said
“do you want to see the eclipse?”

And he proceeded to pull out x-ray sheets and said “look through the black part at the top
to see the sun”.

And, there it was.
The beautiful eclipse, right in front of my own eyes,
brought to me, by someone else.

I didn’t even have to leave my house to have my eclipse desire manifest.

I just had to own my truth (a 3 hour trip to see the eclipse does not feel good right now)
stay connected to my desire (but I’d still really like to see it and not miss out)
and receive (so I’ll just take a nice salt bath and have some great self-care).

Now, back to love.

Do you truly believe that you can manifest the man you want?
That you have what it takes inside, to get him to come to you?

Do you trust that your desire for epic love is in your heart for a reason
AND that the universe loves you so much that it’s working right now to bring your desire to you?

Just like with my eclipse desire.

Now, here’s the thing about manifestation:

Asking for your desire to be met is just one piece.

Step one is getting clear on your desire and owning it with your whole heart.

Manifestation experts (like Abraham Hicks) say that after you ask,
the entire universe gets to work right away to bring your desire to you.

Step two is preparing yourself to receive it.

This is the piece that most women mess up.
They don’t get their manifestation because they haven’t prepared themselves to receive it.

Step two is about making yourself into the woman who can receive
the high-level man you want, which looks like:
1) clearing your love blocks (letting go of pain, fear and limiting beliefs)
2) healing your wounded inner little girl so she stops believing that love = abandonment, rejection, disappointment, criticism, abuse etc. and you can finally stop repeating negative relationship patterns that started in childhood.
3) feeling so worthy of your desires and really boosting your self-love
4) raising your vibration to one of pure positivity and positive expectation.

Most women mistakenly assume that the reason they haven’t manifested their man yet
is because they’ve done step 1 wrong.
Or, worse, that they aren’t meant to have great love.
I promise you, that’s NOT true.

You haven’t gotten step one wrong. You asked for great love.
The universe has heard you.
You can know that becasue you’re reading this email. Help is here for you.

But, look at the list above of the 4 ways to prepare yourself to receive your man
and get honest with yourself. Are there any, or all of them, to work on?

If so, that’s great news becuase it actually means that you CAN do something to attract in your man. It is within your control.

And, stay tuned for the Flirty Friday video this Friday because I’m going to be sharing
how to raise your vibration to find love,
which is one of the ways to prepare yourself to receive your man

I already shared how to feel worthy of your desires here,

I hope you have an amazing eclipse day!

xo,
Nicole

PS: I actually did all of these 4 steps this weekend in relation to a desire I have that looked like it wasn’t manifesting fast enough
.I dove deep into clearing out heart blocks, did some work with my inner little girl, felt how deserving I am of it, and got into a super high vibration.

The result of my work became clear to me with this eclipse viewing manifestation.

I got myself into what Abraham Hicks calls “the receiving mode” where the things I want come to me easily.

So, it doesn’t have to take forever to start manifesting your dreams, even if you feel like they’ve been sooooo slow to manifest before.

You just have to know the right tools.

Have you found the teacher yet to show you the tools and the way?
Maybe I’m that person for you and if so, I’m honored.

And if not, keep asking for help, because you will receive it.