Hey gorgeous!
Are you having difficulting honing in on your skills in flirting?
So many women do so you don’t need to feel alone! But flirting is essential to reeling the man of your dreams in!
My name’s Nicole, and my life’s mission is to help women find and keep their dream man.
Why?
Because I believe that love will change the world.
Love is the answer to everything – and if more women loved themselves, the world would be a better, more beautiful place.
I used to believe there was something wrong with me.
That I didn’t deserve, or need love.
When I changed that mindset, my entire life changed.
I found my dream man.
I found my dream job.
I learned that I could spend my energy helping people feel worthy – not bringing them down.
And now I want to share that knowledge with you.
I am sharing exactly HOW I changed my life and attracted in my dream man.
The way I attracted my dream man, my husband Mike, is that I mastered the skill of flirting. Flirting is a special skill that you must PERFECT to have the quality men gravitate towards you. Because if you know how to flirt, I promise that top 1% of men will flock to you because they are so intrigued by YOU. Because you are intriguing, you are special, you are FABULOUS.
But before we talk about the flirting skills you need to get a man to come over to you, I want to take a moment to get into the psychology of men a little bit so you can understand why it’s so crucial that you, as the woman, initiate the hunt in the first place.
Have you ever been frustrated with dating and thought “Ugh, it’s so easy for men. Why do we women have to do all the work?”.
If that line of thinking is running through your mind, I’m going to lovingly invite you to drop it right now.
The truth is, men are just as scared as you are about this dating stuff.
Think about it. There’s a multi-million dollar industry devoted to teaching men about how to pick up women. That tells me that men are scared and unsure of how to approach women.
So, in order to initiate a man coming over to you, you want to look like an open and safe invitation.
Because men are programmed to win.
If he thinks he might lose by coming over to talk to you (i.e. get rejected), chances are he won’t.
And here’s why: Men are insecure too! (yes, even that guy that looks super confident is worried about what you think about him)
While you’re wondering if you’re good enough for him, chances are that he’s wondering the same exact thing.
And he’s trying to calculate, based on the signs that YOU give him, what his chances of being rejected or winning are.
Men are responding to YOUR energy.
So men actually approach you (or don’t) based on the signals that you give them.
And all human beings naturally move away from pain and towards pleasure.
If a man thinks he’s going to get pleasure (a yes) from talking to you, he’ll move towards you. If the thinks he’s going to get pain (rejection) from talking to you, he’ll move away.
So yes, men are the hunters, but you have to remember that they have options and they have choice. They are going to hunt the prey that they are interested in AND that they have the best chances of catching.
So all flirting is is really making it EASY for a man to know you are interested in him so he takes action and asks you out.
It’s letting him know that a) it’s safe to come over and talk to you (you’re interested in him) And b) that if he asks you out, he won’t be rejected (lose) but he will win by you saying yes.
So let’s give men a break, have some compassion and make it easy for them, Ok?
Are you ready to know the 7 Ways To Have The Man You Want Come Up To You And Ask You Out?
The life-changing ways that made my dream man approach me, which ultimately has lead to our happy marriage and our wonderful family?
Click here to access my Flirting 101 Guide!
I am so excited to share this knowledge with you! So take a look at the Flirting 101 Guide.
I promise – it’ll change your life.
xoxo,
Nicole Moore
Author: Nicole Moore
Nicole Moore is a love coach who helps, powerful, influential women find their ideal partner. Using her signature Love Works Method, she’s helped thousands of women find lasting love fast.
Nicole started her company while she was in a relationship she thought would lead to marriage. Instead, it resulted in emotional abuse and her boyfriend cheating on her. Suddenly single as a life coach, Nicole had to start following her own advice and take every tip she’d ever taught a client – and it worked. She found her dream man exactly one year after following her program and is now happily married with a beautiful son living in Encinitas, CA.
Nicole has three life coaching certifications, including certification from New York University. She’s been featured in Money Magazine, Forbes, and Greatist.com.
