Last week something really scary happened to me.
I went to the doctor’s office (which is in a hospital) for a minor
medical procedure with local anesthesia, and the anesthesia didn’t really work so well.
(apparently I metabolize it quickly!)
So, I ended up being in a tremendous amount of pain,
more then I initially realized.
I got up to leave the doctor’s office, and was standing outside of the hospital
when and all of a sudden I felt super nauseous, my vision started to go black,
and I fell down to the floor.
I had fainted because of the pain.
It was really scary.
And, thank God, I wasn’t alone…He was there for me.
My man…who had actually insisted that he take off from work that morning,
drive me to the doctor’s office and wait there for me so I wouldn’t be alone.
And, this beautiful man took care of me all day.
He doted on me, made sure I was comfortable, made me food, gave me kisses.
I was held. I was supported. I was adored.
I’m not sharing this story to brag.
I’m sharing this story because if you’re anything like me,
you might have become strong and independent as a way to survive.
It was really scary.
And, thank God, I wasn’t alone…He was there for me.
My man…who had actually insisted that he take off from work that morning,
drive me to the doctor’s office and wait there for me so I wouldn’t be alone.
And, this beautiful man took care of me all day.
He doted on me, made sure I was comfortable, made me food, gave me kisses.
I was held. I was supported. I was adored.
I’m not sharing this story to brag.
I’m sharing this story because if you’re anything like me,
you might have become strong and independent as a way to survive.
That if she actually allows herself to fall for a man,
all of the hard work she’s put into herself will be lost
and she’ll revert back to being obsessed with a man and not doing the things she loves.
I get it. I really do.
And, here’s the truth:
Being with the RIGHT Man won’t compromise who you are
…it amplifies who you are.
Love from the right man won’t hurt you
….it will strengthen you.
A relationship with the right man won’t steal your independence
or make you lose yourself…it will make you freer to be even more of who you truly are.
He will support your growth, not hinder it.
My guy thinks I’m really special (you’re one in a billion were his words).
But, the truth is, I’m just like you.
Today, I may be a Love Expert and Man Magnet who drew in an incredible
man who is fully committed and adores her.
But, years ago, I was extremely insecure and felt totally powerless in love.
I was the girl who couldn’t get a committed guy to save her life.
The one who put men on a pedestal and went to crazy-town.
The girl who put up with abusive treatment just to be loved.
If I could turn it all around,
and call in an amazing man who treats me so well, and where I don’t
lose myself at all, but become even more of who I really am
then so can you.
And, let’s get honest for a moment.
Yes, you can do it all on on your own….
But, do you really want to?
xo,
Nicole
PS: I know that we can receive support from people other than a man and,in fact,
I did have one of my best girlfriends offer to drive me to the doctor as well.
And that would have been great too, but here’s the thing:
Girlfriends aren’t a substitute for masculine support.
They’re great, and I couldn’t live without them, but it’s not the same energy as being fully supported by the masculine.
We need both. YOU need both.
If you want to attract an amazing, fully-committed man who adores you in less than 1 year,
then Get And Keep Your Man is perfect for you.
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