Hi Big,

I want you to give something up today.
I want you to leave it behind in 2017 because if you carry it with you into 2018,
you will NOT achieve your 2018 love goals and vision.

I want you to give up your fear.

Fear is a liar that is ruining your life.

Fear is the reason you don’t have the love that you want
Fear is the reason you don’t have the money that you want.
Fear is the reason you don’t have any other thing that you want.

Do you want to know HOW I created the most amazing love and family with my dream man?

I gave up my fear.
Systematically every single day for years and years.
7+ years to be exact of COMMITTING to love every day,
witnessing my fear,
and CHOOSING to act from a place of love, Instead of holding back due to fear.

I used to be terrified that I was completely unloveable
and that if people saw the real me, they would reject me.

I didn’t know what it was exactly, but I was sure that there was something terribly wrong with me and that no one would really love me.

I used to be so terrified of losing love that when I did meet a man that I liked,
I latched on and went to crazy-town so quickly, and this of course pushed him away.

I used to feel so unworthy that I would put myself into scarcity with money, never feeling like I had enough.
I would spend money on useless things to make myself feel better and then be terrified to invest in things that could actually help me, like therapy or coaching.

I used to be terrified of leaving behind the limiting beliefs and “comfort zone”
of my wounded little girl.
In my little girl’s world, she was unloved, unwanted, criticized and neglected.

I literally used to get a near panic attack anytime I started to feel happy or like life was good because I was terrified that it would all be taken away from me, and I’d return to feeling miserable.

A Course in Miracles says “the ego would prefer you to swim in a mild river of misery”

What this means is that FEAR tries to keep you “safe”
but when you listen to the voice of fear and let it guide your actions,
you end up with a life that feels exciting at times, but pretty much averages around miserable and unfulfilling.

I lived the fear based way for YEARS and all it ever got me was brief “highs” when I met a man that I liked and then extreme lows when everything went to sh*t and I was left feeling Alone, unwanted, unloveable, and just plain bad.

So, I say again…do you want to know HOW I created the most amazing love and family with my dream man?

I gave up my fear.
Systematically every single day for years and years.
7+ years to be exact of COMMITTING to love every day,
witnessing my fear,
and CHOOSING to act from a place of love, Instead of holding back due to fear. used to be terrified that I was completely unloveable
and that if people saw the real me, they would reject me.

I didn’t know what it was exactly, but I was sure that there was something terribly wrong with me and that no one would really love me.

I used to be so terrified of losing love that when I did meet a man that I liked,
I latched on and went to crazy-town so quickly, and this of course pushed him away.

I used to feel so unworthy that I would put myself into scarcity with money, never feeling like I had enough.
I would spend money on useless things to make myself feel better and then be terrified to invest in things that could actually help me, like therapy or coaching.

I used to be terrified of leaving behind the limiting beliefs and “comfort zone”
of my wounded little girl.
In my little girl’s world, she was unloved, unwanted, criticized and neglected.

I literally used to get a near panic attack anytime I started to feel happy or like life was good because I was terrified that it would all be taken away from me, and I’d return to feeling miserable.

A Course in Miracles says “the ego would prefer you to swim in a mild river of misery”

What this means is that FEAR tries to keep you “safe”
but when you listen to the voice of fear and let it guide your actions,
you end up with a life that feels exciting at times, but pretty much averages around miserable and unfulfilling.

I lived the fear based way for YEARS and all it ever got me was brief “highs” when I met a man that I liked and then extreme lows when everything went to sh*t and I was left feeling Alone, unwanted, unloveable, and just plain bad.

So, I say again…do you want to know HOW I created the most amazing love and family with my dream man?

I gave up my fear.
Systematically every single day for years and years.
7+ years to be exact of COMMITTING to love every day,
witnessing my fear,
and CHOOSING to act from a place of love, Instead of holding back due to fear.

Here’s the real TRUTH:

The ONLY thing truly standing in the way of you having the most incredible love you’ve dreamed of with a man that’s even better than you imagined is FEAR.

So, I want you to commit to giving it up today, since it’s the last day of 2017.

Now, of course, giving up fear is a process and not a one-time thing, But I invite you to make today that start of you letting go of fear and actually choosing love.

And then, take one LOVE-BASED action to demonstrate to yourself and the universe that you’re not going to let fear ruin your love life anymore.

For example:

• Write a letter to your ex or unavailable man that you’re still pining for and get the feelings out of your heart and then burn the letter signifying you letting go
• Hire the Love Coach that you’ve been wanting to work with if you KNOW in your heart that they can help you get there.
• Take a risk and be vulnerable with the new man you’re dating and share something you wouldn’t normally share due to fear
• Set up an online dating profile if you’ve been avoiding dating for years

In 2018 I commit to telling you the TRUTH about what it takes to find and create EPIC LOVE and not sugarcoating it.

Now, I deeply believe that every woman CAN and should have amazing love with a top 1% man.
We all have that potential inside of us because we all have love within.

But, the truth is, amazing love with a top 1% man is RARE.

The reason that almost no women have it,
is because almost no women are willing
to give up their fear
and actually CHOOSE LOVE.

I’m a woman who has chosen love. Thoroughly. Completely. Day in and day out.

And I can tell you, that while giving up fear and truly saying yes to love is scary at first,
it’s the best thing I have ever done in my life.

It’s the reason I have such an amazing relationship with my man.
It’s the reason I can love my son Luke so deeply and that everyone who sees him remarks that he “looks like a boy who knows he is well loved.”

Choosing love is EVERYTHING.

It’s why you’re here.

And I’m sorry if you’ve had pain or fear in your life that’s made you forget that truth.

But I’m here to remind you now.

So, decide today that you are leaving your fear behind in 2017.

And that in 2018, you will CHOOSE LOVE.

That’s the real way to have what I have.

And I promise you, it’s worth it.

xo,
Nicole