Did you watch the Love Coaching Extravaganza where I talked about how
emotional interference is getting in the way of you finding your man and being happy with him?
It’s super painful.
Here’s how it showed up for me.
First, I had zero interest from men and no men asking me out on dates.
I went long stretches single and yes, sexless too.
I didn’t realize that emotional interference (my heart being closed & hurt)
was blocking men from even asking me out.
Then,
When I DID meet a guy that I liked,
I immediately put him on a pedestal and started freaking out.
like he was the last man on earth.
And, I desperately had to prove my worth to him, but of course,
I just acted super insecure and even though he liked me at first,
he started to pull away.
I didn’t even know that emotional interference (deep seeded feelings of unworthiness)
was pushing men away from me and causing them to pull away after I started to actually like them.
And then, when I was in a relationship,
I picked fights with my guy.
I didn’t know how to ask for or get what I wanted,
so I came across as needy, controlling and like an emotional wreck.
I didn’t even know that emotional interference (my wounded inner little girl ruining my love life)
was the reason that I couldn’t have a happy relationship with a man past the 3 month mark.
Emotional Interference is downright PAINFUL.
And honestly, every. single. woman.
who comes my way has it.
It’s the “hidden reason” why she looks like a catch on the outside or to her family and friends, but she either attracts the wrong men over and over again
OR stays chronically single for years.
Emotional Interference simply means you don’t actually have control over your love life,
instead, your emotions get in the way and keep you from experiencing happiness with the man you want.